Given also that almost all of the money that funded the Prop 8 campaign came from Catholic groups (e.g., Knights of Columbus) or Mormon individuals (at the express request of LDS leadership), protesting them doesn’t seem so unreasonable.

As far as requring eHarmony to provide services to a group they’d prefer not to provide services to, that’s as unreasonable as requring ANY private business to provide services to the entire public. Can you imagine if a restaurant was obliged to seat anyone who came in off the street with money to spend?

One of the infuriating things is that gay activists are protesting people who really aren’t going to fight back hard: Catholic churches and Mormon temples. They’ve shied away from Black churches and evangelicals and orthodox Jewish synagogues.

Feel free to try the Muslim thing. My unscientific sample of Muslim gay men is that their issues are much crazier than anybody else’s, but perhaps your experience will be different.